Let us pray… Father God, thank You for introducing us to Martha and Mary, and Lazarus, too. These were people Your Son Jesus loved. They were special to Him and they have something to tell us. Thank You for ensuring we would have their stories to study even to this day. Forgive us, please Father, when we get too distracted with the routine, mundane activities of this life. Forgive us when we don’t spend enough time with You and in Your word. Please help us recognize the thing that is needed. Remind us that we must not miss out on the good part. And Father, please protect us from Satan and from those who do his bidding, trying to divide us one from another. Please keep us strong in our faith, of one mind and one purpose in our love, worship, and service, and healthy and safe through these trying times.
Speak to us now, Father, that we might hear Your voice through Your Spirit within us and better understand the message You have for us this day. May we be as devoted to Jesus as were these two sisters. Show us how to choose best to serve our Lord. This we pray in the blessed name of Christ Jesus our Redeemer. Amen.
George C. Marshall, army general, statesman, and US Chief of Staff under presidents Franklin Roosevelt and Harry Truman, provided us with this formula for working with other people:
Listen to the other person’s story.
Listen to the other person’s full story.
Listen to the other person’s full story first.
What is the key in all this? To listen. Listen to the other person. Really listen – don’t pretend, don’t feign interest. Pay attention to what they are trying to relate to us so that we can better understand what they are going through, which just might give us a better chance of helping them.
Sometimes we tend to jump ahead a little. We’ll hear part of the story and start formulating a response before they’re through. We figure we already know what to say. And we can so easily be wrong, wrong, wrong.
I think this might be the case when we first meet Martha and Mary. We might not listen to the full story before deciding what is going on. If we quickly read through this we might surmise that Martha is more pragmatic, more practical than her sister Mary, and that Mary is more spiritual than Martha. Some might think that Mary is being lazy, sitting around listening to their guests while Martha does all the work of preparing a meal for a bunch of guys who just happened to drop in. And there may be a bit of truth in all this. But let’s take a closer look.
Luke first introduces us to Martha who welcomed Jesus into their home. And then in verse 39, Luke tells us, “And she” – Martha – “had a sister called Mary, who also sat at Jesus’ feet and heard His word.”
There’s one word in there that’s easy to miss: “also”. At one point or another, both sisters sat at Jesus’ feet and listened as He spoke the word. This tells us that Martha was just as spiritual as Mary, in the sense that they both were followers of Jesus and cherished hearing Him speak.
But then, everyone started getting a little hungry so Martha, being the good hostess, got up to prepare a meal for them all. Maybe she was going a bit overboard, trying to serve a little more elaborate meal than necessary. But she needed an assist and noticed her sister just sitting there, doing nothing to help.
Isn’t this kind of just human nature? Put yourself in Martha’s position. You’re trying to put the big holiday feast together and on the table, while the person who should be helping you is out socializing with the guests. Wouldn’t you go out and say, “Excuse me, but I could really use some help in the kitchen!”? That’s pretty much what Martha did, except she asked Jesus to intercede for her. I can only imagine she was surprised by Jesus’ response.
What is the difference between hearing and listening? We can hear without listening. If we’re driving along listening to the radio, we might not be listening for a police siren or a car horn honking, but we can hear them if they blare out.
Listening takes hearing to another level by us paying more attention to what we’re hearing. If we don’t listen, if we don’t pay attention, we may miss the good part. It’s like trying to watch a movie and someone keeps chattering away so that you miss an important part of the show.
Martha became distracted trying to get a meal ready for her guests and was no longer listening to Jesus. Mary chose the good part. She chose to stay and listen to the word.
Listen to the word - not only hear what is spoken, but listen; be still and pay attention. The Psalmist tells us that God says to, “Be still, and know that I am God”.
Our Gospel accounts are filled with the many times our Lord Jesus spoke, God in the flesh speaking for our benefit. Hear and listen to the words Jesus spoke as saved for us by the Apostle John in the 5th chapter of his Gospel account, verses 24 through 30…