Let us pray… Almighty God, Thank You for saving the writings of the Apostle John for us so we can know just how much You love us. By John’s words we know that we belong to the truth, we belong to You. Thank You, Father, for bringing us into Your family. Sadly, though, Father, sometimes we have trouble loving other people, even other believers. Some folks just aren’t all that loveable. Forgive us these times, Father, when we struggle to do as we are commanded. Please help us be more like Jesus. Help us love without conditions, as He loved. Remind us that we bear His name, the name of Your Christ, so it is important that we represent Him in the best possible light. And please protect us, Father. Shield us from those who serve Satan and carry out his evil works. Please keep us strong in our faith, of one mind and one purpose in our love, worship, and service, and healthy and safe in the days ahead.
Speak to us now, Father, that we might hear Your voice through Your Spirit within us and better understand the message You have for us this day. Help us show Your love through our real service, and not just by giving lip service. Help us stay one in our hearts with You and with Jesus, so that You will stay one with us. This we pray in the precious name of Your Son, Christ Jesus our Lord. Amen.
Back in 1962, the following ad appeared in the San Francisco Examiner newspaper:
"I don't want my husband to die in the gas chamber for a crime he did not commit. I will therefore offer my services for 10 years as a cook, maid, or housekeeper to any leading attorney who will defend him and bring about his vindication."
One of San Francisco's greatest attorneys, Vincent Hallinan, read or heard about the ad and contacted Gladys Kidd, who had placed it. Her husband, Robert Lee Kidd, was about to be tried for the slaying of an elderly antique dealer. Kidd's fingerprints had been found on a bloodstained ornate sword in the victim's shop. During the trial, Hallinan proved that the antique dealer had not been killed by the sword, and that Kidd's fingerprints and blood on the sword got there because Kidd had once toyed with it while playfully dueling with a friend when they were both out shopping. The jury, after 11 hours of deliberation, found Kidd to be not guilty. Attorney Hallinan refused Gladys Kidd's offer of 10 years' servitude.
You may ask, what has this to do with showing love? Well… everything. Mrs. Kidd was willing to subject herself to base servitude because she loved her husband. Jesus said, “Greater love has no one than this, than to lay down one’s life for his friends.” Mrs. Kidd was ready to lay down 10 years of her life to anyone who would help her husband. Mr. Hallinan must have been impressed with this show of love, for he gave his services free of charge, which is another act of love: love for his fellow man.
Now it’s easy to understand a person loving their spouse enough to sacrifice for them, for we tend to do more, to give more, for the people we love. But to sacrifice for a complete stranger - to give of ourselves, our time, our resources – that is the kind of love Jesus commands of us.
There’s an old saying: “Give until it hurts.” Well, I think Jesus would have said, “Give until it hurts, then give some more.” This is love: giving until it hurts then giving even more.
Now family, I know it must seem to you that I’ve been talking about love and loving others a lot lately. Maybe you think enough is enough, that I’ve exhausted the subject by now and I’m just repeating myself. Well, in a way, that’s true – I am repeating myself. But there’s a very good reason for it.
As I’ve mentioned before, when we read something in our Bible in more than one place, it is because this is something that is important for us to grasp, to understand, to remember. God is repeating Himself to make sure we get the point. The more it is repeated, the more important it is for us.
Love – love for God, God’s love for us, love for others – love is a constantly recurring theme in our Bible. It is our commandment: to love others as we love ourselves, as Jesus loves us. In my way of thinking, this is the most important thing for us to do, or else it wouldn’t be repeated so much. And it may just be the hardest thing for us to do.
It’s hard to love the unlovable. It’s hard to love someone who has done us wrong, who hates us, who wishes us harm. It’s hard to love those other people who aren’t like us, who don’t think like us, who don’t look like us.
Sometimes it’s even hard to love our own sibling. John, who is all about love, starts out today’s scripture reading talking about hatred. And he gives Cain and Abel, the very first siblings, as an example. There was no love in Cain. He hated his brother because Abel did good in the eyes of God, while Cain cared more about himself because he was under the control of the devil. So John warns us that the world will hate us, does hate us, when we do good in God’s eyes. And it is our love for one another that shows we are doing good, that we are no longer under the power of death.
John also says that hating another person is the same as murdering them, in God’s eyes, just as hatred led Cain to murder Abel. Jesus Himself warned us of this, in His Sermon on the Mount, when He said that if we hold hatred for one another, we will face judgment for it, just as will a murderer.
But we know that hatred and love are closely entwined. Sometimes it’s far easier to hate than to love. Of course, if loving others was easy, anyone could do it, and we know that so seldom happens. Wouldn’t it be nice, though, if everyone did? If everyone loved each other as they loved themselves, there’d be no more wars, no more crime, no more killings, no more hunger or homelessness or thirst. But the world only knows hatred, because the world only knows Satan.
So loving each other is important, to ourselves and to God. Hating is bad, loving is good. But there’s a lot more to love than just saying, “I love you”, isn’t there. I don’t know how many times I’ve heard someone say, “So-and-so hardly ever said, ‘I love you’, but he showed it every single day. I knew I was loved.”
What is love? How can we show it? Poets and song-writers have tackled the subject for thousands of years, with varying degrees of success. I think the Apostle Paul says it best, in the 13th chapter of his 1st letter to the church in Corinth, verse 1 through the first part of verse 8 when he writes…