The Power of His Word

Sunday, June 21, 2026

Our Father

[The following is a manuscript of my message delivered at Pilgrim Reformed Church on Father's Day, Sunday morning, the 21st of June, 2026. If all went well, a recording of the service may be available on our YouTube streaming channel:

https://www.youtube.com/@pilgrimreformedchurch1992/streams for the older services or https://www.youtube.com/@pilgrimreformedchurch3115/streams for later services.]

Father’s Day comes but once a year. A dear friend of mine used to disagree with that. She’d always say, “Every day is Father’s Day”. I don’t know what her personal experience might have been in this area, but I figured she was referring to the stereotypical father who would come home from work, plop down in his easy chair, and wait for supper to be set on the table.

There was a time when the fathers went off to work each day while the mothers stayed home and managed the house - doing the cleaning and cooking, looking after the kids, that sort of stuff. This pretty much began to change even in my youth, when many families needed two incomes to get by. Nowadays, most mothers and fathers share roles.

Still, though, I’d have to concur that every day is Father’s Day, for there is no better job than being a father. And it’s a crying shame when a man abandons his family, forsaking his kids and their Mom.

Fortunately for us, we have a good Father who will never abandon us, never forsake us, never give up on us. He constantly looks after us, sees to all our needs, gives us so much, and wants nothing more than for us to live with Him forever. His name is God, and while He lives in heaven, His home is with all of us, all the time. And all He asks of us is to believe in and love His Son, following Him as we go through this life. He set us apart from the rest of the world for this very purpose. We are sanctified and blessed.

In the 8th chapter of his letter to the church in Rome, the Apostle Paul stresses the power in being sanctified, in being set apart for God's purpose. He also speaks to how we should respond to being sanctified. Please listen and follow along as the Paul tells us how we should now live, in verses 9 through 17 of the 8th chapter of his letter to the Romans, and I’ll be reading from the Contemporary English Version of our Holy Bible this morning…

9 You are no longer ruled by your desires, but by God's Spirit, who lives in you. People who don't have the Spirit of Christ in them don't belong to Him. 10 But Christ lives in you. So you are alive because God has accepted you, even though your bodies must die because of your sins. 11 Yet God raised Jesus to life! God's Spirit now lives in you, and He will raise you to life by His Spirit.

12 My dear friends, we must not live to satisfy our desires. 13 If you do, you will die. But you will live, if by the help of God's Spirit you say “No” to your desires. 14 Only those people who are led by God's Spirit are His children. 15 God's Spirit doesn't make us slaves who are afraid of Him. Instead, we become His children and call Him our Father. 16 God's Spirit makes us sure that we are His children. 17 His Spirit lets us know that together with Christ we will be given what God has promised. We will also share in the glory of Christ, because we have suffered with Him.

--Romans 8:9-17 (CEV)

Let us pray… Father God, thank You for adopting us into Your family and calling us Your children. And thank You for being such a good father, not only seeing to our needs but giving us even more, blessing us every day. Father, we have all the instructions we need, right here in our bible, telling us how to live righteously. But we struggle to do the things we know we should do. Too often we find it difficult to not do the things we know we shouldn’t do. So we thank You all the more, Father, for forgiving us when we stray and giving us another chance to get things right. Please prod us to spend more time in our bible. Remind us of how important it is that we live this life in a righteous manner. Help us be more like Your Son Jesus each day. This we pray in the beautiful name of our Lord Jesus. Amen.

Dr. George Rekers, in the magazine Homemade, notes that, “A positive and continuous relationship to one's father has been found to be associated with a good self-concept, higher self-esteem, higher self-confidence in personal and social interaction, higher moral maturity, reduced rates of unwed teen pregnancy, greater internal control and higher career aspirations. Fathers who are affectionate, nurturing and actively involved in child-rearing are more likely to have well- adjusted children.”

Our Father in heaven is affectionate, nurturing, and actively involved in our lives. What is our relationship with Him? Is it positive and continuous? Or is it just for an hour or two on Sunday mornings? Does it weather all storms, or does it give way to doubts when troubles rise? Let’s make a commitment to work on and strengthen our relationships with our heavenly Father.

Paul starts right out by saying that now that we are sanctified, we are no longer ruled by our desires. I wish I could be as confident of this as Paul. I think that even we believers, at times, let our desires get the better of us. They may not totally rule us, but they sure can take control sometimes. And I think Paul understood this, too. After all, he’s the one who, just a little earlier in this letter, said, “I don't understand why I act the way I do. I don't do what I know is right. I do the things I hate.”

So yes, we struggle with doing what is right, even though we’ve been sanctified, even though our Father sent His own Spirit to live in us and guide us. This is how much God loves us, that He sent His Spirit to help us do what is right. By His Spirit within us, we know we are children of God, and we can call Him Father, Daddy, Abba.

When we read of the birth of our Lord, it’s clear that while Joseph raised Him as his own, he was not Jesus’ real father. Jesus had no earthly father. Maybe this is why He tells us we only have one father, and it’s not who most people think. The Apostle Matthew recorded Jesus telling us who our father is, in verse 9 of the 23rd chapter of his Gospel account, when Jesus said…

9 “Don't call anyone on earth your father. All of you have the same Father in heaven.”

--Matthew 23:9 (CEV)

On Father’s Day, we celebrate and honor our earthly fathers, and it is right that we should do so. But Jesus is trying to emphasize that by our adoption into the family of God, we all have the same Father now, and it is God, our heavenly Father. And this is why we pray, “Our Father, Who art in heaven…”. This, of course, is the start of the model prayer that Jesus gave us. The Apostle Luke reported this in the first 4 verses of the 11th chapter of his Gospel account…

1 When Jesus had finished praying, one of His disciples said to Him, “Lord, teach us to pray, just as John taught his followers to pray.”

2 So Jesus told them, “Pray in this way:

‘Father, help us
to honor Your name.
Come and set up
Your kingdom.
3 Give us each day
the food we need.
4 Forgive our sins,
as we forgive everyone
who has done wrong to us.
And keep us
from being tempted.’”

--Luke 11:1-4 (CEV)

The Contemporary English Version of our bible has this worded a little differently that the King James Version we may be more used to, but the context is the same. And they both stress how God, through Jesus, wants us to know we can call Him our Father.

It should be obvious that all of this is to our benefit, in this life and in the next. I mean, who could possibly have a better father than Almighty God?!? But it also carries with it a bit of obligation on our part. Primarily in this regard, Jesus says we should show love just as our Father loves. The Apostle Matthew recorded Jesus telling us who we should love, and why, in verses 43 through 48 of the 5th chapter of his Gospel account, during Jesus’ Sermon on the Mount…

43 "You have heard people say, 'Love your neighbors and hate your enemies.' 44 But I tell you to love your enemies and pray for anyone who mistreats you. 45 Then you will be acting like your Father in heaven. He makes the sun rise on both good and bad people. And He sends rain for the ones who do right and for the ones who do wrong. 46 If you love only those people who love you, will God reward you for this? Even tax collectors love their friends. 47 If you greet only your friends, what's so great about this? Don't even unbelievers do that? 48 But you must always act like your Father in heaven."

--Matthew 5:43-48 (CEV)

It seems kind of natural for children, especially little boys, to want to do the things their Dads do. How many of you guys wanted to shave while watching your Dad shaving? Jesus is telling us to act like our heavenly Dad.

God is impartial. He makes the sun to rise on the good and the evil. He sends the rains to those who do good and to those who do wrong. He pours His love over all the earth. And He wants all of mankind to be with Him forever.

This is God’s love, our Father’s love. And this is the love He wants us to show others… even our enemies, even those who hate us, even those who would harm us if they could. We can show our love by honoring our Father’s wishes and helping others come to know Jesus, so that they can also be with God forever. So that they can call Him Father, too.

Fathers, let’s enjoy our special day and cherish the ones who made us fathers. And let’s all celebrate our fathers. For most of us here today, our Dads only live in our memories, but we can still honor him.

Happy Father’s Day to Dads everywhere, and an extra thank you to those men, like Joseph, who accepted the role of father to a child not their own. And let’s not forget those mothers who also served as fathers for their children. Happy Father’s Day to you all!

In the blessed name of Christ Jesus our Lord. Amen.

Let us pray… Almighty God, thank You for giving us fathers. They protect us, provide for us, and show us how to do things. Sadly though, Father, not all men who father children are very good fathers. Please remind all men of the great importance of being a good father to their children, of being a great Dad even to a child not of their own blood. You are a great Father, and a great example for all men. You provide for all our needs and then give even more. You love us even when we are unlovable. You forgive us even when we refuse to forgive. Please help us follow Your example of impartial love.

Please hear us now, Father, as we pause for just a moment so that each of us can speak to You through Your Spirit within us, promising to be more obedient to Your and our Lord’s commands, and seeking Your help to do so…

Lord Jesus, thank You for reminding us that we believers are all children of God. We all have the same Father in heaven. And He loves us all. Thank You for showing us that we should act like our heavenly Father with respect to others, and how we should act in our daily walk. We know that we struggle to love all others, and find it most difficult to love the people who hate us. Please help us remember that our love should be impartial, just as is God’s love. Please help us love as You love: selflessly, unconditionally, sacrificially. Help us show Your love and God’s love as we reach out to others, sharing Your words and Your works, telling them all about You. Help us carry out the mission You gave us, seeking the lost sheep and leading them to You.

Holy Spirit, please shield our minds and our hearts from Satan’s lies and the world’s empty promises. Guide us around all the devil’s traps and snares. Help us see though his temptations. Help us keep our focus on the things of heaven and the needs of others rather than on anything this world might offer. All this we pray in the blessed name of Christ Jesus our Lord. Amen.

Show Kindness

[The following is a manuscript of my message delivered at Pilgrim Reformed Church on Sunday morning, the 14th of June, 2026. If all went well, a recording of the service may be available on our YouTube streaming channel:

https://www.youtube.com/@pilgrimreformedchurch1992/streams for the older services or https://www.youtube.com/@pilgrimreformedchurch3115/streams for later services.]

We know that Jesus was born in Bethlehem, but then His parents took Him to Egypt to escape the killing of all male children under two years of age that Herod ordered. When Herod died and they returned to Israel, they settled in Nazareth, in the region of Galilee. There, the boy grew into a man, often teaching in the synagogues of the region.

In the 4^th chapter of his Gospel account, the Apostle Luke tells us that Jesus left Nazareth after the residents there attempted to put Him to death for His preaching, when He proclaimed that He fulfilled the prophecy of Isaiah regarding the Messiah. He relocated to the city of Capernaum, along the shore of the Sea of Galilee. It is there that He established and headquartered His ministry.

And when I say it was His headquarters, I mean it is where He and His disciples would return to from their many travels. For during His ministry, Jesus and His disciples walked all over Israel, even into Samaria, Syria, and Tyre. They walked everywhere. Our bible doesn’t say it, but I bet they depended on the kindness of the people they interacted with for help with finances and meals.

Once, after one of their journeys of teaching and preaching and healing, they returned to Capernaum where some friends brought a crippled man to Jesus to be healed. Jesus did this by telling the man his sins were forgiven, to the consternation of the Pharisees who witnessed it. As Jesus and His disciples were walking back to their meeting house, they passed by a tax collector’s booth. Please listen and follow along to what happened next, as recorded by the Apostle Matthew in verses 9 through 13 of the 9^th chapter of his Gospel account, and I’ll be reading from the Easy-to-Read Version of our Holy Bible again this morning…

9 When Jesus was leaving, He saw a man named Matthew sitting at the place for collecting taxes. Jesus said to him, “Follow Me.” So he got up and followed Jesus.

10 Jesus ate dinner at Matthew’s house. Many tax collectors and others with bad reputations came and ate with Him and His followers. 11 The Pharisees saw that Jesus was eating with these people. They asked His followers, “Why does your Teacher eat with tax collectors and other sinners?”

12 Jesus heard them say this. So He said to them, “It is the sick people who need a doctor, not those who are healthy. 13 You need to go and learn what this Scripture means: ‘I don’t want animal sacrifices; I want you to show kindness to people.' I did not come to invite good people. I came to invite sinners.”

--Matthew 9:9-13 (ERV)

Let us pray… Father God, thank You for marshaling all the events in Jesus’ life and ministry to teach us how we should act and react in similar situations. Jesus cared about the people and showed how much You care, too. Father, You want us to be kind to other people, no matter how they might treat us. But this is hard for us. Too often our feelings get in the way, our pride gets the better of us. When someone hurts us, we want to hurt them back. So we thank You all the more, Father because You forgive us and keep loving us, giving us chance after chance to do better. Please help us be more faithful in following Your word and showing Your love. Remind us that it’s our job to love others, to show kindness toward them. Help us be more like Your Son Jesus in our walk through this life. This we pray in the beautiful name of our Lord Jesus. Amen.

The little Bits and Pieces magazine once told that, “Mamie Adams always went to a branch post office in her town because the postal employees there were friendly. She went there to buy stamps just before Christmas one year and the lines were particularly long. Someone pointed out that there was no need to wait in line because there was a stamp machine in the lobby. ‘I know’, said Mamie, ‘but the machine won't ask me about my arthritis.’”

It costs little to show kindness to another, but can bring great reward. Very often, showing a little kindness can go a long way in winning loyalty.

Today in the Word magazine reported that, “British statesman and financier Cecil Rhodes, whose fortune was used to endow the world-famous Rhodes Scholarships, was a stickler for correct dress - but apparently not at the expense of someone else's feelings. A young man invited to dine with Rhodes arrived by train and had to go directly to Rhodes's home in his travel-stained clothes. Once there he was appalled to find the other guests already assembled, wearing full evening dress. After what seemed a long time Rhodes appeared, in a shabby old blue suit. Later the young man learned that his host had been dressed in evening clothes, but put on the old suit when he heard of his young guest's dilemma.”

An act of kindness when none was really necessary. A man in Rhodes' position could just as easily have ordered his young guest to go clean up and change. Instead, he showed kindness by lowering his own image to more closely mirror that of his guest. Humble kindness is a trait we all should adopt.

Jesus healed a man by forgiving his sins and the Pharisees got angry. He had a meal with some tax collectors and others that were considered sinners, and the Pharisees got angry. Pretty much anything and everything Jesus did angered the religious leaders. And they weren’t at all kind in their anger.

We have no record of how the Pharisees reacted to their little scripture lesson that night, but I doubt they took it very well. These were the leaders of the people in religious matters. They should have been more than familiar with the scripture Jesus quoted. By the way, that particular passage comes from the prophet Hosea in the 6^th chapter and 6^th verse of the book bearing his name. I would think that being told what they should have been aware of and practicing would have embarrassed them and made them mad. God wanted them to be kind, but they just couldn’t force themselves to do so.

The prophet Micah penned his book sometime after Hosea wrote his, and it’s possible that what Hosea spoke from God influenced Micah’s writings. Please hear how Micah echoed and expanded on Hosea’s words, reminding us of the role of kindness in our everyday dealings, as he wrote in verses 6 through 8 of the 6^th chapter of his book of prophecy bearing his name…

6 What must I bring when I come to meet with the Lord?

What must I do when I bow down to God above?

Should I come to Him with burnt offerings

and a year-old calf?

7 Will the Lord be pleased with a thousand rams

or with ten thousand rivers of oil?

Should I offer Him my first child to pay for my wrongs?

Should I sacrifice my very own child for my sins?

8 Human, the Lord has told you what goodness is.

This is what He wants from you:

Be fair to other people.

Love kindness and loyalty,

and humbly obey your God.

--Micah 6:6-8 (ERV)

What is goodness? What does God expect of us? He expects us to be fair to other people, to love kindness and loyalty, and to humbly obey Him. Isn’t this love? Aren’t being fair and kind and loyal all signs of love?

Let’s look at one more way we can show kindness and love. Please hear the instruction of wise King Solomon as he tells us how we should act in verses 8 & 9 of the 31^st chapter of his Book of Proverbs…

8 Speak up for people who cannot speak for themselves. Help people who are in trouble. 9 Stand up for what you know is right, and judge all people fairly. Protect the rights of the poor and those who need help.

--Proverbs 31:8-9 (ERV)

Speak for those who are given no voice. Help those in trouble. Stand up for what is right. Judge fairly. Protect the rights of the powerless. Be fair and love kindness.

One translation of Micah’s words says we should do justly and love mercy. This is what Solomon means. And all of this is what Jesus commands when He tells us to love others. Showing kindness is showing love.

Let’s go out there and be kind, be merciful, and be forgiving. In the blessed name of Christ Jesus our Lord. Amen.

Let us pray… Almighty God, thank You for loving us and forgiving us even when we disobey Your command. We know what we’re supposed to do, but too often we just don’t. You’ve set us apart to believe in and follow Your Son, but we just can’t seem to let go of the world and its ways. Too often we look and act just like everyone else, with nothing to distinguish us from the non-believers. Thank You, Father, for having mercy on us, even when we aren’t very merciful, for forgiving us when we are less than forgiving. Father, we know we are guilty of sin. We know we disobey You. Please help us remember how Jesus treated people so that we can follow His example. Remind us of what You expect of us.

Lord Jesus, thank You for freeing us from our sin and offering us eternal life. Thank You for seeing how thick-headed we are but loving us anyway. And thank You for showing us how we should act and react with others in our daily walk. We know we can be a stubborn people, refusing to show kindness when it would be easy to do so, hesitating to forgive someone who really needs forgiveness. Please help us remember that none of us are perfect, that we all need to be shown kindness at some point or another. Please help us love as You love: selflessly, unconditionally, sacrificially. Help us show Your love and God’s love as we reach out to others, sharing Your words and Your works, telling them all about You. Help us carry out the mission You gave us, seeking the lost sheep and leading them to You.

Sunday, June 07, 2026

Judge Not!

[The following is a manuscript of my message delivered at Pilgrim Reformed Church on Sunday morning, the 7th of June, 2026. If all went well, a recording of the service may be available on our YouTube streaming channel:

https://www.youtube.com/@pilgrimreformedchurch1992/streams for the older services or https://www.youtube.com/@pilgrimreformedchurch3115/streams for later services.]

I have a guilty pleasure to admit: I really enjoy watching Judge Judy on TV. Judge Judy Sheindlin is a no-nonsense, wise-cracking judicator of televised cases that are kind of similar to what you’d see in a small claims court. She has a bailiff and, in the later version, a court recorder and an assistant, who happens to be her granddaughter. And she really was a family judge before she retired.

It’s amusing and quite pleasing to watch her tear into the foolish people who come before her with claims or defenses that are utterly outlandish. One of her favorite sayings in such instances is, “Don’t pee on my leg and tell me it’s raining.” But she is an entirely impartial judge, listening attentively to both sides, asking succinct, probing questions, and then rendering a well-reasoned and explained verdict, often providing heartfelt counseling to one or both of the parties. In other words, she does what a judge is supposed to do in matters of human law.

I’ve mentioned before that the Apostle Paul wanted to visit the church in Rome, but never got around to it. Reading between the lines of his opening letter to the church, it is apparent that this is not one he started. But he was anxious to go see them, so he opened his letter with an introduction and a prayer. And then he delivered a powerful lecture on how all people do wrong in the sight of God.

In our scripture reading this morning, Paul continues this message by noting that many people who consider themselves good are also doing wrong. Please listen and follow along to the Apostle Paul’s directive in the first 11 verses of the 2nd chapter of his Epistle to the Romans, and I’ll be reading from the Easy-to-Read Version of our Holy Bible this morning…

1 So do you think that you can judge those other people? You are wrong. You too are guilty of sin. You judge them, but you do the same things they do. So when you judge them, you are really condemning yourself. 2 God judges all who do such things, and we know His judgment is right. 3 And since you do the same things as those people you judge, surely you understand that God will punish you too. How could you think you would be able to escape His judgment? 4 God has been kind to you. He has been very patient, waiting for you to change. But you think nothing of His kindness. Maybe you don’t understand that God is kind to you so that you will decide to change your lives.

5 But you are so stubborn! You refuse to change. So you are making your own punishment greater and greater. You will be punished on the day when God will show His anger. On that day everyone will see how right God is to judge people. 6 He will reward or punish everyone for what they have done. 7 Some people live for God’s glory, for honor, and for life that cannot be destroyed. They live for those things by always continuing to do good. God will give eternal life to them. 8 But others are selfish and refuse to follow truth. They follow evil. God will show His anger and punish them. 9 He will give trouble and suffering to everyone who does evil — to the Jews first and also to those who are not Jews. 10 But He will give glory, honor, and peace to everyone who does good — to the Jews first and also to those who are not Jews. 11 God judges everyone the same. It doesn’t matter who they are.

--Romans 2:1-11 (ERV)

Let us pray… Father God, thank You for all the instructions for righteous living contained in our bible. Father, we know we should be more diligent in following those instructions. And we know we don’t always do so. So we thank You all the more for still loving us even when we disappoint You. Please help us be more faithful in following Your word and showing Your love to others. Remind us that it our job to love others, not to judge them. Help us be more like Your Son Jesus in our walk through this life. This we pray in the beautiful name of our Lord Jesus. Amen.

In his book, Christianity Today, Stephen Brown wrote: “It was F.B. Meyer, I believe, who once said that when we see a brother or sister in sin, there are two things we do not know: First, we do not know how hard he or she tried not to sin. And second, we do not know the power of the forces that assailed him or her. We also do not know what we would have done in the same circumstances.”

At a pastor's conference in Spokane, WA, Chuck Swindoll told of being at a California Christian camp. The first day there a man approached him and said how greatly he had looked forward to hearing Dr. Swindoll speak and his delight at now finally being able to realize that desire. That evening Swindoll noticed the man sitting near the front. But only a few minutes into the message the man was sound asleep. Swindoll thought to himself that perhaps he was tired after a long day's drive and couldn't help himself. But the same thing happened the next few nights, and Dr. Swindoll found his exasperation with the man growing. On the last night the man's wife came up and apologized for her husband's inattention to the messages. She then explained that he had recently been diagnosed as having terminal cancer and the medication he was taking to ease the pain made him extremely sleepy. But it had been one of his life-long ambitions to hear Dr. Swindoll speak before he died, and now he had fulfilled that goal.

It's easy to judge someone when we don't agree with them. It's easy to judge someone when we don’t like their actions or words, when they make us angry. It's easy to jump to conclusions when we're unaware of their circumstances. We should probably be careful not to hurt ourselves when we make that jump.

Paul opens our passage this morning with the rather sarcastic question, "So do you think that you can judge those other people?" When he says "those other people", he means all the sinners he discussed in the first chapter, all those who disobeyed and rebelled against God. In other words, all human beings. In the third chapter, Paul will clearly and specifically state that all people sin - all people. But he also addresses this here, when he points out that, "You too are guilty of sin." Which, of course, refers to anyone reading or hearing his words, including us today. We are guilty of the same things we judge other people of, in one way or another. We have an expression for that: it's the pot calling the kettle black.

OK, so no, we're not murderers. But Jesus, in His Sermon on the Mount, said that getting mad at someone is the same as murdering them. Who among us has never been angry with someone else? We need to remember that any sin is disobedience to God's word, and we have all been disobedient at some time or another.

Then there's the scary statement: God judges all people who disobey Him, and that includes us as well. If we weren't so stubborn, we could change and be obedient if we truly realized how good and kind God is to us, how quickly He is willing to forgive us and give us another chance to do right. Nonetheless, we will be judged, we will be punished just as will those who we judge. For God judges everyone the same. It doesn't matter who they are.

Now Paul was merely reinforcing what Jesus had already said about judging other. Please hear what Jesus had to say about this in what we call His Sermon on the Plain, as saved for us by the Apostle Luke in verses 36 through 38 of the 6th chapter of his Gospel account…

36 “Give love and mercy the same as your Father gives love and mercy.

37 “Don’t judge others, and God will not judge you. Don’t condemn others, and you will not be condemned. Forgive others, and you will be forgiven. 38 Give to others, and you will receive. You will be given much. It will be poured into your hands — more than you can hold. You will be given so much that it will spill into your lap. The way you give to others is the way God will give to you.”

--Luke 6:36-38 (ERV)

If God didn't love us and have mercy on us, we would die in our sin and suffer eternal damnation and torment. But He does love us, and He showed His love by sending His Son to redeem us. And all we have to do is repent and follow Jesus.

If we don't judge others, God will not judge us. If we don't condemn others for what we see as their sinful ways, God won't condemn us for our sinful ways. If we forgive others, we will be forgiven.

The things is, we don't need to judge or condemn anyone else. Jesus says they judge themselves, then condemn themselves by their own actions and words. We just need to forgive others and show mercy. For what we give will be given us, what we show will be shown us, and more.

Don't judge, don't condemn, just forgive. In the blessed name of Christ Jesus our Lord. Amen.

Let us pray… Almighty God, thank You for loving us and having mercy on us, even when we sin. We have this bad habit of judging others for the things they do, when we do the same things ourselves. We jump to conclusions without giving the benefit of a doubt. And then we wonder why You don’t punish them right there on the spot. Thank You, Father, for having mercy on us, even when we aren’t very merciful, for forgiving us when we are less than forgiving. Father, we know we are guilty of sin. We know we disobey You. Please help us remember that any time we point a finger at someone else, there are four other fingers of our own hand pointing right at us. Help us be more merciful in our dealings with others, less judgmental, more forgiving. Remind us of what You expect of us.

Lord Jesus, thank You for taking our sin upon Yourself. Thank You for seeing our disobedience but loving us anyway. And thank You for offering us Living Water and eternal life if we only believe in and follow You. But Lord, we can be a stubborn people, refusing to show mercy to all, hesitating to forgive. Sometimes we jump to conclusions, giving no benefit of a doubt. Please help us remember that we have our own sins to deal with so we don’t need to worry about the sins of anyone else. Please help us love as You love: selflessly, unconditionally, sacrificially. Help us show Your love and God’s love as we reach out to others, sharing Your words and Your works, telling them all about You. Help us carry out the mission You gave us, seeking the lost sheep and leading them to You.

Sunday, May 31, 2026

We Will See Him

[The following is a manuscript of my message delivered at Pilgrim Reformed Church on Sunday morning, the 31st of May, 2026. If all went well, a recording of the service may be available on our YouTube streaming channel:

https://www.youtube.com/@pilgrimreformedchurch1992/streams for the older services or https://www.youtube.com/@pilgrimreformedchurch3115/streams for later services.]

Back on the first Sunday of the month, we looked at the opening verses of the 14th chapter of the Apostle John’s Gospel account. In that passage, Jesus proclaimed that He is the Way and the Truth and the Life. No one can get to the Father in heaven except through Him. By His sacrifice on the cross, the way has been made ready for us. Jesus took our sin upon Himself. By our belief, we are forgiven and redeemed.

Today I’d like to continue with that scripture and the way Jesus made ready. That previous passage ended and today’s begins with the same verse, with Jesus saying, “If you love Me, obey My commands.” And that’s a question each of us must seriously ask ourselves: do I truly love Jesus?

Please listen and follow along as I finish reading the 14th chapter of the Apostle John’s Gospel account, verses 15 through 31, and I’ll be reading from the New Living Translation of our Holy Bible this morning…

15 “If you love Me, obey My commandments. 16 And I will ask the Father, and He will give you another Advocate, who will never leave you. 17 He is the Holy Spirit, who leads into all truth. The world cannot receive Him, because it isn’t looking for Him and doesn’t recognize Him. But you know Him, because He lives with you now and later will be in you. 18 No, I will not abandon you as orphans — I will come to you. 19 Soon the world will no longer see Me, but you will see Me. Since I live, you also will live. 20 When I am raised to life again, you will know that I am in My Father, and you are in Me, and I am in you. 21 Those who accept My commandments and obey them are the ones who love Me. And because they love Me, My Father will love them. And I will love them and reveal Myself to each of them.”

22 Judas (not Judas Iscariot, but the other disciple with that name) said to Him, “Lord, why are You going to reveal Yourself only to us and not to the world at large?”

23 Jesus replied, “All who love Me will do what I say. My Father will love them, and We will come and make Our home with each of them. 24 Anyone who doesn’t love Me will not obey Me. And remember, My words are not My own. What I am telling you is from the Father who sent Me. 25 I am telling you these things now while I am still with you. 26 But when the Father sends the Advocate as My representative — that is, the Holy Spirit — He will teach you everything and will remind you of everything I have told you.

27 “I am leaving you with a gift — peace of mind and heart. And the peace I give is a gift the world cannot give. So don’t be troubled or afraid. 28 Remember what I told you: I am going away, but I will come back to you again. If you really loved Me, you would be happy that I am going to the Father, who is greater than I am. 29 I have told you these things before they happen so that when they do happen, you will believe.

30 “I don’t have much more time to talk to you, because the ruler of this world approaches. He has no power over Me, 31 but I will do what the Father requires of Me, so that the world will know that I love the Father. Come, let’s be going.”

--John 14:15-31 (NLT)

Let us pray… Father God, thank You for agreeing to Your Son’s request and sending Your Holy Spirit to live within us and be our Advocate and Guide. Father, we know we are not worthy of so wonderful a gift. And we know we are not always very obedient. So we thank You all the more for loving us even when we displease You. Please help us more faithfully obey You. Remind us of how little Jesus expects of us. Help us be more like Your Son in all areas of our life. This we pray in the beautiful name of our Lord Jesus. Amen.

Charles Spurgeon once claimed that 98 percent of the people he met - including the criminals he visited in England's prisons - told him that they believed the Bible to be true. Ninety-eight percent. But the vast majority had never made a personal, life-changing commitment to Jesus Christ. For them, "believe" was not an active verb.

The Apostle James says, “How can you show me your faith if you don’t have good deeds? I will show you my faith by my good deeds.” (James 2:18c (NLT)) There’s more to “believing” than just a thought process. To believe in Jesus is to follow Him. To believe the Bible is true is to live as it directs.

The content of belief - what we believe and how we believe it - is important. Jonathan Whitfield was preaching to coal miners in England. He asked one man, “What do you believe?” “Well, I believe the same as the church.” “And what does the church believe?” “Well, they believe the same as me.” Seeing he was getting nowhere, Whitfield said, “And what is it that you both believe?” “Well, I suppose the same thing.”

Sounds like a politician’s response to me. But it does highlight the fact that some people do not truly know exactly what it is they believe in. When confronted about their belief, they hem and haw and stumble around for a answer. How strong is our conviction? Do we believe the Bible is true, in all of its content? Do we believe that we will indeed see Jesus some day?

Our reading this morning packed a lot in those 17 verses, beginning with Jesus noting that we will obey Him if we truly love Him. Now it’s not like Jesus placed a heavy burden on us, like the Pharisees did to the Jews. All Jesus commands is that we love each other, and that we go into the world sharing the Gospel and making disciples for Him. To make this even more simple, if we love Jesus we will follow Him, follow the example He set. And if we do, He will have our Father God send His Holy Spirit to live within us and be our Advocate. We also know the Holy Spirit as our Helper, our Guide, our Comforter, our Encourager, our Counselor, and our constant Companion. This is our gift from God for simply loving His Son.

A little earlier in his Gospel account, John recorded a conversation between Jesus and a certain Pharisee. Please hear what John saved for is in the first 8 verses of the 3rd chapter of his account…

1 There was a man named Nicodemus, a Jewish religious leader who was a Pharisee. 2 After dark one evening, he came to speak with Jesus. “Rabbi,” he said, “we all know that God has sent You to teach us. Your miraculous signs are evidence that God is with You.”

3 Jesus replied, “I tell you the truth, unless you are born again, you cannot see the Kingdom of God.”

4 “What do You mean?” exclaimed Nicodemus. “How can an old man go back into his mother’s womb and be born again?”

5 Jesus replied, “I assure you, no one can enter the Kingdom of God without being born of water and the Spirit. 6 Humans can reproduce only human life, but the Holy Spirit gives birth to spiritual life. 7 So don’t be surprised when I say, ‘You must be born again.’ 8 The wind blows wherever it wants. Just as you can hear the wind but can’t tell where it comes from or where it is going, so you can’t explain how people are born of the Spirit.”

--John 3:1-8 (NLT)

When Pharisee Nicodemus came at night to speak with Jesus, Jesus compared the work of the Holy Spirit to the wind. We can't see the wind - we can only see its effects. We can't see the Holy Spirit, but we can see His effect on a person. We can feel His effect on us. We can’t see Him with our eyes, but we can see Him with our spirit, with our heart.

Returning to our morning reading, Jesus promises not to abandon us, even though He is leaving us. At that point in time, anybody and everybody could physically see Jesus, if they had sight. But soon the world, the unbelieving world, would no longer be able to see Him, meaning He would no longer be physically there among them.

He assured His followers, though, that they would still be able to see Him, because He will still live. And because He lives, we, too, will live. Because He will be raised to new life, we, too, will be raised to new life. This is our promise of everlasting life with Jesus.

Jesus left us and returned to heaven. But He also left us with two amazing gifts: the Holy Spirit and peace. This is not a peace like the world can give. Any peace that the world offers is very short-lived, easily shattered and broken. And this is not a physical peace from hostilities or harm. It is just as Jesus says – a peace of mind and heart. It allows us to be at peace spiritually, internally, no matter what storms and wars may rage around us. It is the peace of knowing that some day we will see Jesus.

Earlier this month, in the reading of the first part of our morning’s scripture, we heard Philip exclaim, “Lord, show us the Father, and we will be satisfied.” Jesus, sounding exasperated, replied, “Anyone who has seen Me has seen the Father!” (John 14:8,9b (NLT))

We today can only see Jesus through the eyes of those who walked with Him, saw Him up close, heard Him. We see Him through the accounts saved in our bible. In the same way, we can also see the Holy Spirit, and we can see the effect He has on ourselves and others.

But some sweet day, we will see the beautiful face of our Lord Jesus, with our own eyes. And we will fall down at His feet and worship Him. For now let us continue to worship our Lord Jesus and our Father God in spirit and in truth. In the blessed name of Christ Jesus our Lord. Amen.

Let us pray… Almighty God, thank You for all the blessing You pour out over us, all the wonderful gifts we don’t deserve. You sent Your Son to save us. You forgive our sin when we follow Him. You gave You own Spirit to live within us. And then there are all the blessings we receive daily. Thank You, Father, for loving us this much! Sadly, Father, we too often disappoint and displease You. We act in ways we know we shouldn’t, and we don’t do things we know we should. Please help us do better. Help us be more merciful in our dealings with others. Remind us of what is truly important.

Lord Jesus, thank You for promising not to abandon us. Thank You for assuring us that we will see you some day. Thank You for the promise of new life with You. And thank You for peace of heart and of mind. But Lord, we realize that we too often fail to follow Your commands. Sometimes we don’t show our love of You by not loving others as we should. Please help us remember that Your burden is light, Your commands few and simple. Please help us love as You love: selflessly, unconditionally, sacrificially. Help us show Your love and God’s love as we reach out to others, sharing Your words and Your works, telling them all about You. Help us carry out the mission You gave us, seeking the lost sheep and leading them to You.

Sunday, May 24, 2026

Be Holy

[The following is a manuscript of my message delivered at Pilgrim Reformed Church on Sunday morning, the 24th of May, 2026 - Pentecost Sunday. If all went well, a recording of the service may be available on our YouTube streaming channel:

https://www.youtube.com/@pilgrimreformedchurch1992/streams for the older services or https://www.youtube.com/@pilgrimreformedchurch3115/streams for later services.]

Today is Pentecost Sunday, when we celebrate the day when God made His own Holy Spirit available to all who will believe in His Son and follow Him. By our belief, the Spirit makes His home within us and we are made holy.

That’s a word we hear and use a lot in our Christian faith: holy. It’s most often applied to God and Jesus and, of course, the Holy Spirit. The most saintliest of people may also be called holy. And maybe because of this highest degree of use, we may be hesitant to apply the term to ourselves. That might change, though, if we understand just what it means to be holy.

We just need to remember that from that first Pentecost on, God in His great grace made us holy. We just need to stay holy. The Apostle Peter, one of the recipients on that day of Pentecost, brings a little clarity in how we can stay holy. Please listen and follow along to a passage in the opening chapter of Simon Peter’s 1st letter to the early church, verses 14 through 25, where he encourages us to obey God. I’ll be reading from the Easy-to-Read version of our Holy Bible again this morning…

14 In the past you did not have the understanding you have now, so you did the evil things you wanted to do. But now you are children of God, so you should obey Him and not live the way you did before. 15 Be holy in everything you do, just as God is holy. He is the one who chose you. 16 In the Scriptures God says, “Be holy, because I am holy.”

17 You pray to God and call Him Father, but He will judge everyone the same way — by what they do. So while you are visiting here on earth, you should live with respect for God. 18 You know that in the past the way you were living was useless. It was a way of life you learned from those who lived before you. But you were saved from that way of living. You were bought, but not with things that ruin like gold or silver. 19 You were bought with the precious blood of Christ’s death. He was a pure and perfect sacrificial Lamb. 20 Christ was chosen before the world was made, but He was shown to the world in these last times for you. 21 You believe in God through Christ. God is the one who raised Him from death and gave honor to Him. So your faith and your hope are in God.

22 You have made yourselves pure by obeying the truth. Now you can have true love for your brothers and sisters. So love each other deeply — with all your heart. 23 You have been born again. This new life did not come from something that dies. It came from something that cannot die. You were born again through God’s life-giving message that lasts forever. 24 The Scriptures say,

“Our lives are like the grass of spring,
and any glory we enjoy is like the beauty of a wildflower.
The grass dries up and dies,
and the flower falls to the ground.
25 But the word of the Lord lasts forever.”

And that word is the Good News that was told to you.

--1 Peter 1:14-25 (ERV)

Let us pray… Father God, thank You for giving us the faith to believe in and follow Your Son Jesus, and for sending Your Holy Spirit to live within us. By Your grace and mercy, and by Jesus’ selfless sacrifice, we are forgiven and saved. Thank You for helping us understand the wrongs we did in our past so we can keep from repeating them. Please help us stay clean and holy. Remind us of our real need to obey You and Your Son. Help us be more like Jesus in all aspects of this life. This we pray in the beautiful name of our Lord Jesus. Amen.

John Brown, a nineteenth-century Scottish theologian, is quoted as saying, “Holiness does not consist in mystic speculations, enthusiastic fervours, or uncommanded austerities; it consists in thinking as God thinks, and willing as God wills.”

Now I dare say none of us can truly think as God thinks. After all, His ways are higher than our ways and His thoughts are higher than our thoughts. But we certainly can try to see things as He sees them, see people as He sees them, treat others as Jesus treated them. And we can make God’s will our will, by obeying His word.

Evangelist D. L. Moody once noted that, “A holy life will make the deepest impression. Lighthouses blow no horns, they just shine.” When we do as God wills, when we follow the example Jesus set, when we are obedient to our Lord, it will show and other people will see it. We don’t need to blow horns, or stand in the spotlight. We just need to shine God’s love in our daily walk to make that deepest impression. This little light of mine, I’m gonna let it shine.

Peter reminds us that now we are children of God. Now we understand and know the evil things we have done and are capable of doing. We humans truly are capable of incredible evil when we fall under Satan’s sway. But now we are fully aware of this and it is more important than ever to obey God and His word.

It is of the utmost importance that we remain holy in everything we do. As evil swirls and swells around us, we must remain holy. God commands us to be holy because He is holy. And He chose us to be holy. So maybe we need to look a little more closely at just what it means to be holy, what is required of holiness.

As it turns out, being holy isn’t as tough or highfalutin as we sometimes make it out to be. Don’t we usually associate the term as being morally flawless, morally and spiritually pure, saintly, something we lowly sinners could never attain?

Well, to be holy is simply to be set apart, separated from the common crowd for a special purpose. Of all the people on this earth, God set us apart to believe in and follow His Son. God made us holy.

Of course, it’s up to us to stay holy. There are a few requirements that, while not easy, are quite doable. We must try to be morally clean, pushing for goodness, the highest integrity and righteousness in all we do, and by this, reflect the character and actions of our Lord. And oh by the way, righteousness is doing what is right in God’s eyes, doing His will, doing as He commands.

To be holy we must be wholeheartedly devoted to our God and His Son Jesus, showing their love in our interactions with others, humbly treating others with love and respect. And we must be purposeful in following the guidance of God’s Holy Spirit as He leads us in the right direction, adhering to spiritual principles instead of selfish human, worldly desires.

I think the Apostle Paul summed all this up quite nicely in his 1st Letter to the Thessalonians when he wrote in the 4th chapter, the first part of verse 3 and verse 7…

3a God wants you to be holy. 7 God chose us to be holy. He does not want us to live in sin.

--1 Thessalonians 4:3a,7 (ERV)

God wants us to be holy so He chose us to be holy. So we must stop living in sin. I did say it wasn’t easy.

Paul follows this up in the 1st four verses of the 6th chapter of his letter to the church in Rome when he writes...

1 So do you think we should continue sinning so that God will give us more and more grace? 2 Of course not! Our old sinful life ended. It’s dead. So how can we continue living in sin? 3 Did you forget that all of us became part of Christ Jesus when we were baptized? In our baptism we shared in His death. 4 So when we were baptized, we were buried with Christ and took part in His death. And just as Christ was raised from death by the wonderful power of the Father, so we can now live a new life.

--Romans 6:1-4 (ERV)

You’ve heard me speak of baptism before, and the symbolism of full immersion baptism. When we are dunked under the water, we die and are buried with Jesus. And then when we are raised up out of the water again, we are raised to new life in Jesus, we are raised from the dead just as Jesus was.

This is the analogy Paul uses to explain why we must not continue sinning if we are to remain holy. We have died to our old, sinful life, and been reborn into this new holy life, the life God wills us to live. We must repent, turn from our sinful ways and turn fully to God to remain holy.

Like I said – this being holy stuff isn’t easy, but it is doable, if we set our mind and our heart to it. It requires a purposeful approach to living in this world without conforming to the world, as Paul puts it a little further on in that letter to the Romans.

Not continuing to live in sin is more difficult than one might think. Sure, none of us is likely to murder anyone, nor are we likely to lie, unless it’s something like saying we’re fine when we really feel miserable. But sometimes we get angry. Sometimes we say things, hurtful things, without thinking first, without considering how it might impact anyone who hears us. Sometimes we hold hurtful thoughts in our hearts just because someone doesn’t look like us or think like us or believe in and support the things we believe in and support. Sometimes we hate the sinner as well as the sin. Sometimes our moral compass slips a bit.

This is why I say we must be purposeful in everything we think, do, and say every second of our waking life. We must strive to be morally pure at all times, being truly selfless, self-sacrificing, and unconditional in our love. We were taught the Golden Rule early in life. Now it’s time to apply that rule in our daily walk.

Take time to be holy. In the blessed name of Christ Jesus our Lord. Amen.

Let us pray… Almighty God, thank You for making us holy. And thank You for sending Your Holy Spirit to us to help us remain holy. Sadly, Father, pure evil permeates this world we live in. Satan holds sway over so many of the people we meet with, work with, come across in our daily walk. Please give us the ability to better discern evil from good. Please give us the courage to face each trying day. Please remind us to take time to be holy.

Lord Jesus, thank You for showing us the will of God in how You lived Your mortal life among us. And thank You for the path of righteousness You blazed for us to follow. Sometimes, though Lord, we stumble and trip up over the blocks Satan placed in our way. Sometimes we stray off the path, lured by the devil’s bright and shiny toys. Please help us remember that our Father God set us apart to follow You and Your example. Of all people, God made us holy. Please help us stay holy. Help us show Your love and God’s love as we reach out to others, sharing Your words and Your works, telling them all about You. Help us carry out the mission You gave us, seeking the lost sheep and leading them to You.

Sunday, May 10, 2026

Who Are Our Mothers?

[The following is a manuscript of my message delivered at Pilgrim Reformed Church on Sunday morning, the 10th of May, 2026 - Mother's Day. Today's service included a few extra events and was running a little long. If all went well, a recording of the service may be available on our YouTube streaming channel:

https://www.youtube.com/@pilgrimreformedchurch1992/streams for the older services or https://www.youtube.com/@pilgrimreformedchurch3115/streams for later services.]

This is a very special day, when we celebrate our mothers, even those who have gone on to their heavenly reward. Some of you probably have lunch plans, and I don’t want to hold you up too much. We’ve already had a busy morning and a longer than normal opening to our service. So I going to keep this part shorter, letting God and our bible do most of the talking while celebrating motherhood.

And to get right to it, I want you to recall the wedding feast in Cana that our Lord Jesus and His disciples attended, the wedding of the son of friends of the family. This is where Jesus somewhat reluctantly performed His first miracle of record. Please listen and follow along to a short portion of what the Apostle John recorded of this event, leading up to the miracle itself. This comes from the 2nd chapter of John’s Gospel account, verses 1 through 5, and I’ll be reading from the Easy-to-Read version of our Holy Bible this morning…

1 Two days later there was a wedding in the town of Cana in Galilee, and Jesus’ mother was there. 2 Jesus and His followers were also invited. 3 At the wedding there was not enough wine, so Jesus’ mother said to Him, “They have no more wine.”

4 Jesus answered, “Dear woman, why are you telling Me this? It is not yet time for Me to begin My work.”

5 His mother said to the servants, “Do what He tells you.”

--John 2:1-5 (ERV)

Let us pray… Father God, the first thing You did after creating our world was to establish the institution of family. You gave us a father and a mother, to protect us and nurture us when we are small and helpless. Our mothers are reflections of You, with their faithfulness, selflessness, and unconditional and sacrificial love. Since the fall of mankind, not all mothers have been good mothers, but all have tried the best they knew how. Thank You for our mothers, Father. Please help us to always remember their love, and to hold them lovingly in our hearts. Remind us of how Jesus obeyed His mother, even when He didn’t really want to. Help us be more like Him in all aspects of this life. This we pray in the beautiful name of our Lord Jesus. Amen.

Someone now unknown once noted that, “No one deserves a special day all to herself more than today's Mom. A cartoon showed a psychologist talking to his patient, who was a mother: ‘Let's see,’ he said, ‘you spend 50 percent of your energy on your job, 50 percent on your husband and 50 percent on your children. I think I see your problem.’”

Like I said in my prayer, a good mother is a close reflection of God. She loves unconditionally, sacrificially, selflessly. She gives so much of herself to her family, there is usually nothing left over for herself. Pray that our Father God give mothers everywhere the peace and rest to face each day.

I hope you were able to read between the lines a little bit in our short scripture passage. As the wedding party progressed, the wine started running low. Maybe more guests than expected arrived, or they drank more than usual, or the wedding party manger failed to order enough. Whatever the reason, they were about to run dry.

Mary knew the family, and she knew how devastating it would be for them if the wine ran out before the feast ended. I bet she was just a little frantic when she approached Jesus and said, “They have no more wine.” Jesus sounds a little nonchalant and uncaring when He replies, “What is that to Me? Why should I care? It is not time yet for me to start showing who I am, what I am.”

Mary knew her son. If you think about it, that is rather a profound statement, since Jesus is God and can anyone really know God? Well Mary knew Jesus. After all, she raised Him, taught Him, changed His messy diapers, bandaged His cuts and scrapes, consoled Him, loved Him through everything. So like any good mother, Mary ignored her adult son's protests and instructed the servers to do whatever He told them, knowing He would go ahead and do what was right, what was needed. We know the rest of the story. Jesus turned some water into wine, the feast was saved, and the family was spared embarrassment.

You may wonder why I chose the title of today’s message as I did. Why not something simple and appropriate to the day, like “In Celebration of Mothers”?

Well, leading up to the day, I was thinking about my daughter’s mother, who left this world far too early. And that got me to remembering some of the women who helped me as I struggled to comfort and raise a twelve-year-old on my own. They helped me mother my child.

Motherhood really can be a mixed bag. For some women, motherhood is an accident, and not always a welcome one. For some, biological motherhood isn’t possible. For some, motherhood under the very best of circumstances is still less than a bed of roses or a primrose path. For some folks, their mothers weren’t all that nice. But if not for motherhood, none of us would be here. And then there are those women, and some men, who provide a mother’s love to a child they did not give birth to.

Jesus was well aware of all this, and so much more. He knew that not all of our “mothers” were the women how gave birth to us. Please listen to a short exchange the Apostle Matthew recorded for us in the 12th chapter of his Gospel account, verses 46 through 50…

46 While Jesus was talking to the people, His mother and brothers stood outside. They wanted to talk to Him. 47 Someone told Him, “Your mother and brothers are waiting for You outside. They want to talk to You.”

48 Jesus answered, “Who is My mother? Who are My brothers?” 49 Then He pointed to His followers and said, “See! These people are My mother and My brothers. 50 Yes, anyone who does what My Father in heaven wants is My true brother and sister and mother.”

--Matthew 12:46-50 (ERV)

Who is my mother? Anyone who does what our heavenly Father wants them to do. You – any who do what God wants - are my brothers and sisters and mothers. And some of you ladies mother me a lot. I like that, even if I don’t always show it, or respond like you might want me to. But I always try to do what is right.

There’s another time I’d like to look at, when Jesus let us know that non-traditional mother-child relationships are not only acceptable but also preferred. Hear what the Apostle John saved for us in the 19th chapter of his Gospel account, verses 25 through 27, from the day Jesus clung to life while nailed to the cross, nearing His last breath...

25 Jesus’ mother stood near His cross. Her sister was also standing there with Mary the wife of Clopas, and Mary Magdalene. 26 Jesus saw His mother. He also saw the follower He loved very much standing there. He said to His mother, “Dear woman, here is your son.” 27 Then He said to the follower, “Here is your mother.” So after that, this follower took Jesus’ mother to live in his home.
--John 19:25-27 (ERV)

Now John already had a mother, who the Apostle Mark identified as Salome. But Jesus was more concerned about His mother, already a widow and soon to lose a son. And yes, it wouldn’t hurt for John to have someone to care for and see to, something to distract him from his own grief over losing his Master. So this arrangement benefited both.

But it also tells us that there may be times when we need to look past normal familial bonds and bring others into the closeness of family. We may need mothering, or we may need to mother someone else. Or maybe a little of both, all at the same time. And that will be OK. We’ll be doing what God wants us to do, loving someone like He loves us.

So yes, today let’s celebrated our mothers by honoring them or their memory. But let’s also think lovingly on those folks, women and men, who have loved us like mothers, or those we have loved like our own children. And let us thank God for mothers and their love. In the blessed name of Christ Jesus our Lord. Amen.

Let us pray… Almighty God, thank You for giving us the warmth and comfort of family. Thank You for our mothers who reflect Your love. And thank You for all those who have mothered us in this life. Sadly, Father, we know that not all those who brought life into the world were good mothers. And we know some mothers have suffered greatly, even while trying to do their best for their child. But Father, we also know that some people have willingly, whole-heartedly, taken on the role of mother for someone who needed it the most. So we thank You for the blessing of all mothers. Please protect those who are still with us in this life, and richly reward those who are now with You. Please help us stay true and faithful to our Lord so that we can all be reunited some sweet day.

Lord Jesus, thank You for showing us Your human side in Your relationship with Your own mother. And thank You for also showing us that there can be many and various different mother-child relationships in this life. Sometimes we just need someone to mother us, to hold us when we’re sad, to rejoice with us when we’re happy. Please help us remember that all mothers are a reflection of God and His love. And that all people – all of us – are created in God’s image. Help us show Your love and His love as we reach out to others, sharing Your words and Your works, telling them all about You. Help us carry out the mission You gave us, seeking the lost sheep and leading them to You.

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