We Will See Him

 

[The following is a manuscript of my message delivered at Pilgrim Reformed Church on Sunday morning, the 31st of May, 2026.  If all went well, a recording of the service may be available on our YouTube streaming channel: 

https://www.youtube.com/@pilgrimreformedchurch1992/streams for the older services or https://www.youtube.com/@pilgrimreformedchurch3115/streams for later services.]

Back on the first Sunday of the month, we looked at the opening verses of the 14th chapter of the Apostle John’s Gospel account.  In that passage, Jesus proclaimed that He is the Way and the Truth and the Life.  No one can get to the Father in heaven except through Him.  By His sacrifice on the cross, the way has been made ready for us.  Jesus took our sin upon Himself.  By our belief, we are forgiven and redeemed.

Today I’d like to continue with that scripture and the way Jesus made ready.  That previous passage ended and today’s begins with the same verse, with Jesus saying, “If you love Me, obey My commands.”  And that’s a question each of us must seriously ask ourselves: do I truly love Jesus?

Please listen and follow along as I finish reading the 14th chapter of the Apostle John’s Gospel account, verses 15 through 31, and I’ll be reading from the New Living Translation of our Holy Bible this morning…

15 “If you love Me, obey My commandments. 16 And I will ask the Father, and He will give you another Advocate, who will never leave you. 17 He is the Holy Spirit, who leads into all truth. The world cannot receive Him, because it isn’t looking for Him and doesn’t recognize Him. But you know Him, because He lives with you now and later will be in you. 18 No, I will not abandon you as orphans — I will come to you. 19 Soon the world will no longer see Me, but you will see Me. Since I live, you also will live. 20 When I am raised to life again, you will know that I am in My Father, and you are in Me, and I am in you. 21 Those who accept My commandments and obey them are the ones who love Me. And because they love Me, My Father will love them. And I will love them and reveal Myself to each of them.”

22 Judas (not Judas Iscariot, but the other disciple with that name) said to Him, “Lord, why are You going to reveal Yourself only to us and not to the world at large?”

23 Jesus replied, “All who love Me will do what I say. My Father will love them, and We will come and make Our home with each of them. 24 Anyone who doesn’t love Me will not obey Me. And remember, My words are not My own. What I am telling you is from the Father who sent Me. 25 I am telling you these things now while I am still with you. 26 But when the Father sends the Advocate as My representative — that is, the Holy Spirit — He will teach you everything and will remind you of everything I have told you.

27 “I am leaving you with a gift — peace of mind and heart. And the peace I give is a gift the world cannot give. So don’t be troubled or afraid. 28 Remember what I told you: I am going away, but I will come back to you again. If you really loved Me, you would be happy that I am going to the Father, who is greater than I am. 29 I have told you these things before they happen so that when they do happen, you will believe.

30 “I don’t have much more time to talk to you, because the ruler of this world approaches. He has no power over Me, 31 but I will do what the Father requires of Me, so that the world will know that I love the Father. Come, let’s be going.”

--John 14:15-31 (NLT)

Let us pray…  Father God, thank You for agreeing to Your Son’s request and sending Your Holy Spirit to live within us and be our Advocate and Guide.  Father, we know we are not worthy of so wonderful a gift.  And we know we are not always very obedient.  So we thank You all the more for loving us even when we displease You.  Please help us more faithfully obey You.  Remind us of how little Jesus expects of us.  Help us be more like Your Son in all areas of our life.  This we pray in the beautiful name of our Lord Jesus.   Amen.

Charles Spurgeon once claimed that 98 percent of the people he met - including the criminals he visited in England's prisons - told him that they believed the Bible to be true.  Ninety-eight percent.  But the vast majority had never made a personal, life-changing commitment to Jesus Christ.  For them, "believe" was not an active verb.

The Apostle James says, “How can you show me your faith if you don’t have good deeds?  I will show you my faith by my good deeds.”  (James 2:18c (NLT))  There’s more to “believing” than just a thought process.  To believe in Jesus is to follow Him.  To believe the Bible is true is to live as it directs.

The content of belief - what we believe and how we believe it - is important.  Jonathan Whitfield was preaching to coal miners in England.  He asked one man, “What do you believe?”  “Well, I believe the same as the church.”  “And what does the church believe?”  “Well, they believe the same as me.”  Seeing he was getting nowhere, Whitfield said, “And what is it that you both believe?”  “Well, I suppose the same thing.”

Sounds like a politician’s response to me.  But it does highlight the fact that some people do not truly know exactly what it is they believe in.  When confronted about their belief, they hem and haw and stumble around for a answer.  How strong is our conviction?  Do we believe the Bible is true, in all of its content?  Do we believe that we will indeed see Jesus some day?

Our reading this morning packed a lot in those 17 verses, beginning with Jesus noting that we will obey Him if we truly love Him.  Now it’s not like Jesus placed a heavy burden on us, like the Pharisees did to the Jews.  All Jesus commands is that we love each other, and that we go into the world sharing the Gospel and making disciples for Him.  To make this even more simple, if we love Jesus we will follow Him, follow the example He set.  And if we do, He will have our Father God send His Holy Spirit to live within us and be our Advocate.  We also know the Holy Spirit as our Helper, our Guide, our Comforter, our Encourager, our Counselor, and our constant Companion.  This is our gift from God for simply loving His Son.

A little earlier in his Gospel account, John recorded a conversation between Jesus and a certain Pharisee.  Please hear what John saved for is in the first 8 verses of the 3rd chapter of his account…

1 There was a man named Nicodemus, a Jewish religious leader who was a Pharisee. 2 After dark one evening, he came to speak with Jesus. “Rabbi,” he said, “we all know that God has sent You to teach us. Your miraculous signs are evidence that God is with You.”

3 Jesus replied, “I tell you the truth, unless you are born again, you cannot see the Kingdom of God.”

4 “What do You mean?” exclaimed Nicodemus. “How can an old man go back into his mother’s womb and be born again?”

5 Jesus replied, “I assure you, no one can enter the Kingdom of God without being born of water and the Spirit. 6 Humans can reproduce only human life, but the Holy Spirit gives birth to spiritual life. 7 So don’t be surprised when I say, ‘You must be born again.’ 8 The wind blows wherever it wants. Just as you can hear the wind but can’t tell where it comes from or where it is going, so you can’t explain how people are born of the Spirit.”

--John 3:1-8 (NLT)

When Pharisee Nicodemus came at night to speak with Jesus, Jesus compared the work of the Holy Spirit to the wind.  We can't see the wind - we can only see its effects.  We can't see the Holy Spirit, but we can see His effect on a person.  We can feel His effect on us.  We can’t see Him with our eyes, but we can see Him with our spirit, with our heart.

Returning to our morning reading, Jesus promises not to abandon us, even though He is leaving us.  At that point in time, anybody and everybody could physically see Jesus, if they had sight.  But soon the world, the unbelieving world, would no longer be able to see Him, meaning He would no longer be physically there among them.

He assured His followers, though, that they would still be able to see Him, because He will still live.  And because He lives, we, too, will live.  Because He will be raised to new life, we, too, will be raised to new life.  This is our promise of everlasting life with Jesus.

Jesus left us and returned to heaven.  But He also left us with two amazing gifts: the Holy Spirit and peace.  This is not a peace like the world can give.  Any peace that the world offers is very short-lived, easily shattered and broken.  And this is not a physical peace from hostilities or harm.  It is just as Jesus says – a peace of mind and heart.  It allows us to be at peace spiritually, internally, no matter what storms and wars may rage around us.  It is the peace of knowing that some day we will see Jesus.

Earlier this month, in the reading of the first part of our morning’s scripture, we heard Philip exclaim, “Lord, show us the Father, and we will be satisfied.”  Jesus, sounding exasperated, replied, “Anyone who has seen Me has seen the Father!”  (John 14:8,9b (NLT))

We today can only see Jesus through the eyes of those who walked with Him, saw Him up close, heard Him.  We see Him through the accounts saved in our bible.  In the same way, we can also see the Holy Spirit, and we can see the effect He has on ourselves and others.

But some sweet day, we will see the beautiful face of our Lord Jesus, with our own eyes.  And we will fall down at His feet and worship Him.  For now let us continue to worship our Lord Jesus and our Father God in spirit and in truth.  In the blessed name of Christ Jesus our Lord.  Amen.

Let us pray…  Almighty God, thank You for all the blessing You pour out over us, all the wonderful gifts we don’t deserve.  You sent Your Son to save us.  You forgive our sin when we follow Him.  You gave You own Spirit to live within us.  And then there are all the blessings we receive daily.  Thank You, Father, for loving us this much!  Sadly, Father, we too often disappoint and displease You.  We act in ways we know we shouldn’t, and we don’t do things we know we should.  Please help us do better.  Help us be more merciful in our dealings with others.  Remind us of what is truly important.

Please hear us now, Father, as we pause for just a moment so that each of us can speak to You through Your Spirit within us, promising to be more obedient to Your and our Lord’s commands, and seeking Your help to do so…

Lord Jesus, thank You for promising not to abandon us.  Thank You for assuring us that we will see you some day.  Thank You for the promise of new life with You.  And thank You for peace of heart and of mind.  But Lord, we realize that we too often fail to follow Your commands.  Sometimes we don’t show our love of You by not loving others as we should.  Please help us remember that Your burden is light, Your commands few and simple.  Please help us love as You love: selflessly, unconditionally, sacrificially.  Help us show Your love and God’s love as we reach out to others, sharing Your words and Your works, telling them all about You.  Help us carry out the mission You gave us, seeking the lost sheep and leading them to You.

Holy Spirit, please shield our minds and our hearts from Satan’s lies and the world’s empty promises.  Guide us around all the devil’s traps and snares.  Help us see though his temptations.  Help us keep our focus on the things of heaven and the needs of others rather than on anything this world might offer.  All this we pray in the blessed name of Christ Jesus our Lord.  Amen.

Be Holy

 

[The following is a manuscript of my message delivered at Pilgrim Reformed Church on Sunday morning, the 24th of May, 2026 - Pentecost Sunday.  If all went well, a recording of the service may be available on our YouTube streaming channel: 

https://www.youtube.com/@pilgrimreformedchurch1992/streams for the older services or https://www.youtube.com/@pilgrimreformedchurch3115/streams for later services.]

Today is Pentecost Sunday, when we celebrate the day when God made His own Holy Spirit available to all who will believe in His Son and follow Him.  By our belief, the Spirit makes His home within us and we are made holy.

That’s a word we hear and use a lot in our Christian faith: holy.  It’s most often applied to God and Jesus and, of course, the Holy Spirit.  The most saintliest of people may also be called holy.  And maybe because of this highest degree of use, we may be hesitant to apply the term to ourselves.  That might change, though, if we understand just what it means to be holy.

We just need to remember that from that first Pentecost on, God in His great grace made us holy.  We just need to stay holy.  The Apostle Peter, one of the recipients on that day of Pentecost, brings a little clarity in how we can stay holy.  Please listen and follow along to a passage in the opening chapter of Simon Peter’s 1st letter to the early church, verses 14 through 25, where he encourages us to obey God.  I’ll be reading from the Easy-to-Read version of our Holy Bible again this morning…

14 In the past you did not have the understanding you have now, so you did the evil things you wanted to do. But now you are children of God, so you should obey Him and not live the way you did before. 15 Be holy in everything you do, just as God is holy. He is the one who chose you. 16 In the Scriptures God says, “Be holy, because I am holy.”

17 You pray to God and call Him Father, but He will judge everyone the same way — by what they do. So while you are visiting here on earth, you should live with respect for God. 18 You know that in the past the way you were living was useless. It was a way of life you learned from those who lived before you. But you were saved from that way of living. You were bought, but not with things that ruin like gold or silver. 19 You were bought with the precious blood of Christ’s death. He was a pure and perfect sacrificial Lamb. 20 Christ was chosen before the world was made, but He was shown to the world in these last times for you. 21 You believe in God through Christ. God is the one who raised Him from death and gave honor to Him. So your faith and your hope are in God.

22 You have made yourselves pure by obeying the truth. Now you can have true love for your brothers and sisters. So love each other deeply — with all your heart. 23 You have been born again. This new life did not come from something that dies. It came from something that cannot die. You were born again through God’s life-giving message that lasts forever. 24 The Scriptures say,

“Our lives are like the grass of spring,

and any glory we enjoy is like the beauty of a wildflower.

The grass dries up and dies,

and the flower falls to the ground.

25 But the word of the Lord lasts forever.”

And that word is the Good News that was told to you.

--1 Peter 1:14-25 (ERV)

Let us pray…  Father God, thank You for giving us the faith to believe in and follow Your Son Jesus, and for sending Your Holy Spirit to live within us.  By Your grace and mercy, and by Jesus’ selfless sacrifice, we are forgiven and saved.  Thank You for helping us understand the wrongs we did in our past so we can keep from repeating them.  Please help us stay clean and holy.  Remind us of our real need to obey You and Your Son.  Help us be more like Jesus in all aspects of this life.  This we pray in the beautiful name of our Lord Jesus.   Amen.

John Brown, a nineteenth-century Scottish theologian, is quoted as saying, “Holiness does not consist in mystic speculations, enthusiastic fervours, or uncommanded austerities; it consists in thinking as God thinks, and willing as God wills.”

Now I dare say none of us can truly think as God thinks.  After all, His ways are higher than our ways and His thoughts are higher than our thoughts.  But we certainly can try to see things as He sees them, see people as He sees them, treat others as Jesus treated them.  And we can make God’s will our will, by obeying His word.

Evangelist D. L. Moody once noted that, “A holy life will make the deepest impression.  Lighthouses blow no horns, they just shine.”  When we do as God wills, when we follow the example Jesus set, when we are obedient to our Lord, it will show and other people will see it.  We don’t need to blow horns, or stand in the spotlight.  We just need to shine God’s love in our daily walk to make that deepest impression.  This little light of mine, I’m gonna let it shine.

Peter reminds us that now we are children of God.  Now we understand and know the evil things we have done and are capable of doing.  We humans truly are capable of incredible evil when we fall under Satan’s sway.  But now we are fully aware of this and it is more important than ever to obey God and His word.

It is of the utmost importance that we remain holy in everything we do.  As evil swirls and swells around us, we must remain holy.  God commands us to be holy because He is holy.  And He chose us to be holy.  So maybe we need to look a little more closely at just what it means to be holy, what is required of holiness.

As it turns out, being holy isn’t as tough or highfalutin as we sometimes make it out to be.  Don’t we usually associate the term as being morally flawless, morally and spiritually pure, saintly, something we lowly sinners could never attain?

Well, to be holy is simply to be set apart, separated from the common crowd for a special purpose.  Of all the people on this earth, God set us apart to believe in and follow His Son.  God made us holy.

Of course, it’s up to us to stay holy.  There are a few requirements that, while not easy, are quite doable.  We must try to be morally clean, pushing for goodness, the highest integrity and righteousness in all we do, and by this, reflect the character and actions of our Lord.  And oh by the way, righteousness is doing what is right in God’s eyes, doing His will, doing as He commands.

To be holy we must be wholeheartedly devoted to our God and His Son Jesus, showing their love in our interactions with others, humbly treating others with love and respect.  And we must be purposeful in following the guidance of God’s Holy Spirit as He leads us in the right direction, adhering to spiritual principles instead of selfish human, worldly desires.

I think the Apostle Paul summed all this up quite nicely in his 1st Letter to the Thessalonians when he wrote in the 4th chapter, the first part of verse 3 and verse 7…

3a God wants you to be holy.  7 God chose us to be holy. He does not want us to live in sin.

--1 Thessalonians 4:3a,7 (ERV)

God wants us to be holy so He chose us to be holy.  So we must stop living in sin.  I did say it wasn’t easy.

Paul follows this up in the 1st four verses of the 6th chapter of his letter to the church in Rome when he writes...

1 So do you think we should continue sinning so that God will give us more and more grace? 2 Of course not! Our old sinful life ended. It’s dead. So how can we continue living in sin? 3 Did you forget that all of us became part of Christ Jesus when we were baptized? In our baptism we shared in His death. 4 So when we were baptized, we were buried with Christ and took part in His death. And just as Christ was raised from death by the wonderful power of the Father, so we can now live a new life. 

--Romans 6:1-4 (ERV)

You’ve heard me speak of baptism before, and the symbolism of full immersion baptism.  When we are dunked under the water, we die and are buried with Jesus.  And then when we are raised up out of the water again, we are raised to new life in Jesus, we are raised from the dead just as Jesus was.

This is the analogy Paul uses to explain why we must not continue sinning if we are to remain holy.  We have died to our old, sinful life, and been reborn into this new holy life, the life God wills us to live.  We must repent, turn from our sinful ways and turn fully to God to remain holy.

Like I said – this being holy stuff isn’t easy, but it is doable, if we set our mind and our heart to it.  It requires a purposeful approach to living in this world without conforming to the world, as Paul puts it a little further on in that letter to the Romans.

Not continuing to live in sin is more difficult than one might think.  Sure, none of us is likely to murder anyone, nor are we likely to lie, unless it’s something like saying we’re fine when we really feel miserable.  But sometimes we get angry.  Sometimes we say things, hurtful things, without thinking first, without considering how it might impact anyone who hears us.  Sometimes we hold hurtful thoughts in our hearts just because someone doesn’t look like us or think like us or believe in and support the things we believe in and support.  Sometimes we hate the sinner as well as the sin.  Sometimes our moral compass slips a bit.

This is why I say we must be purposeful in everything we think, do, and say every second of our waking life.  We must strive to be morally pure at all times, being truly selfless, self-sacrificing, and unconditional in our love.  We were taught the Golden Rule early in life.  Now it’s time to apply that rule in our daily walk.

Take time to be holy.  In the blessed name of Christ Jesus our Lord.  Amen.

Let us pray…  Almighty God, thank You for making us holy.  And thank You for sending Your Holy Spirit to us to help us remain holy.  Sadly, Father, pure evil permeates this world we live in.  Satan holds sway over so many of the people we meet with, work with, come across in our daily walk.  Please give us the ability to better discern evil from good.  Please give us the courage to face each trying day.  Please remind us to take time to be holy.

Please hear us now, Father, as we pause for just a moment so that each of us can speak to You through Your Spirit within us, promising to be more obedient to Your and our Lord’s commands, and seeking Your help to do so…

Lord Jesus, thank You for showing us the will of God in how You lived Your mortal life among us.  And thank You for the path of righteousness You blazed for us to follow.  Sometimes, though Lord, we stumble and trip up over the blocks Satan placed in our way.  Sometimes we stray off the path, lured by the devil’s bright and shiny toys.  Please help us remember that our Father God set us apart to follow You and Your example.  Of all people, God made us holy.  Please help us stay holy.  Help us show Your love and God’s love as we reach out to others, sharing Your words and Your works, telling them all about You.  Help us carry out the mission You gave us, seeking the lost sheep and leading them to You.

Holy Spirit, please shield our minds and our hearts from Satan’s lies and the world’s empty promises.  Guide us around all the devil’s traps and snares.  Help us see though his temptations.  Help us keep our focus on the things of heaven and the needs of others rather than on anything this world might offer.  All this we pray in the blessed name of Christ Jesus our Lord.  Amen.

Who Are Our Mothers?

  

[The following is a manuscript of my message delivered at Pilgrim Reformed Church on Sunday morning, the 10th of May, 2026 - Mother's Day.  Today's service included a few extra events and was running a little long.  If all went well, a recording of the service may be available on our YouTube streaming channel: 

https://www.youtube.com/@pilgrimreformedchurch1992/streams for the older services or https://www.youtube.com/@pilgrimreformedchurch3115/streams for later services.]

This is a very special day, when we celebrate our mothers, even those who have gone on to their heavenly reward.  Some of you probably have lunch plans, and I don’t want to hold you up too much.  We’ve already had a busy morning and a longer than normal opening to our service.  So I going to keep this part shorter, letting God and our bible do most of the talking while celebrating motherhood.

And to get right to it, I want you to recall the wedding feast in Cana that our Lord Jesus and His disciples attended, the wedding of the son of friends of the family.  This is where Jesus somewhat reluctantly performed His first miracle of record.  Please listen and follow along to a short portion of what the Apostle John recorded of this event, leading up to the miracle itself.  This comes from the 2nd chapter of John’s Gospel account, verses 1 through 5, and I’ll be reading from the Easy-to-Read version of our Holy Bible this morning…

1 Two days later there was a wedding in the town of Cana in Galilee, and Jesus’ mother was there. 2 Jesus and His followers were also invited. 3 At the wedding there was not enough wine, so Jesus’ mother said to Him, “They have no more wine.”

4 Jesus answered, “Dear woman, why are you telling Me this? It is not yet time for Me to begin My work.”

5 His mother said to the servants, “Do what He tells you.”

--John 2:1-5 (ERV)

Let us pray…  Father God, the first thing You did after creating our world was to establish the institution of family.  You gave us a father and a mother, to protect us and nurture us when we are small and helpless.  Our mothers are reflections of You, with their faithfulness, selflessness, and unconditional and sacrificial love.  Since the fall of mankind, not all mothers have been good mothers, but all have tried the best they knew how.  Thank You for our mothers, Father.  Please help us to always remember their love, and to hold them lovingly in our hearts.  Remind us of how Jesus obeyed His mother, even when He didn’t really want to.  Help us be more like Him in all aspects of this life.  This we pray in the beautiful name of our Lord Jesus.   Amen.

Someone now unknown once noted that, “No one deserves a special day all to herself more than today's Mom.  A cartoon showed a psychologist talking to his patient, who was a mother:  ‘Let's see,’ he said, ‘you spend 50 percent of your energy on your job, 50 percent on your husband and 50 percent on your children.  I think I see your problem.’”

Like I said in my prayer, a good mother is a close reflection of God.  She loves unconditionally, sacrificially, selflessly.  She gives so much of herself to her family, there is usually nothing left over for herself.  Pray that our Father God give mothers everywhere the peace and rest to face each day.

I hope you were able to read between the lines a little bit in our short scripture passage.  As the wedding party progressed, the wine started running low.  Maybe more guests than expected arrived, or they drank more than usual, or the wedding party manger failed to order enough.  Whatever the reason, they were about to run dry.

Mary knew the family, and she knew how devastating it would be for them if the wine ran out before the feast ended.  I bet she was just a little frantic when she approached Jesus and said, “They have no more wine.”  Jesus sounds a little nonchalant and uncaring when He replies, “What is that to Me?  Why should I care?  It is not time yet for me to start showing who I am, what I am.”

Mary knew her son.  If you think about it, that is rather a profound statement, since Jesus is God and can anyone really know God?  Well Mary knew Jesus.  After all, she raised Him, taught Him, changed His messy diapers, bandaged His cuts and scrapes, consoled Him, loved Him through everything.  So like any good mother, Mary ignored her adult son's protests and instructed the servers to do whatever He told them, knowing He would go ahead and do what was right, what was needed.  We know the rest of the story.  Jesus turned some water into wine, the feast was saved, and the family was spared embarrassment.

You may wonder why I chose the title of today’s message as I did.  Why not something simple and appropriate to the day, like “In Celebration of Mothers”?

Well, leading up to the day, I was thinking about my daughter’s mother, who left this world far too early.  And that got me to remembering some of the women who helped me as I struggled to comfort and raise a twelve-year-old on my own.  They helped me mother my child.

Motherhood really can be a mixed bag.  For some women, motherhood is an accident, and not always a welcome one.  For some, biological motherhood isn’t possible.  For some, motherhood under the very best of circumstances is still less than a bed of roses or a primrose path.  For some folks, their mothers weren’t all that nice.  But if not for motherhood, none of us would be here.  And then there are those women, and some men, who provide a mother’s love to a child they did not give birth to.

Jesus was well aware of all this, and so much more.  He knew that not all of our “mothers” were the women how gave birth to us.  Please listen to a short exchange the Apostle Matthew recorded for us in the 12th chapter of his Gospel account, verses 46 through 50…

46 While Jesus was talking to the people, His mother and brothers stood outside. They wanted to talk to Him. 47 Someone told Him, “Your mother and brothers are waiting for You outside. They want to talk to You.”

48 Jesus answered, “Who is My mother? Who are My brothers?” 49 Then He pointed to His followers and said, “See! These people are My mother and My brothers. 50 Yes, anyone who does what My Father in heaven wants is My true brother and sister and mother.”

--Matthew 12:46-50 (ERV)

Who is my mother?  Anyone who does what our heavenly Father wants them to do.  You – any who do what God wants - are my brothers and sisters and mothers.  And some of you ladies mother me a lot.  I like that, even if I don’t always show it, or respond like you might want me to.  But I always try to do what is right.

There’s another time I’d like to look at, when Jesus let us know that non-traditional mother-child relationships are not only acceptable but also preferred.  Hear what the Apostle John saved for us in the 19th chapter of his Gospel account, verses 25 through 27, from the day Jesus clung to life while nailed to the cross, nearing His last breath...

25 Jesus’ mother stood near His cross. Her sister was also standing there with Mary the wife of Clopas, and Mary Magdalene. 26 Jesus saw His mother. He also saw the follower He loved very much standing there. He said to His mother, “Dear woman, here is your son.” 27 Then He said to the follower, “Here is your mother.” So after that, this follower took Jesus’ mother to live in his home.

--John 19:25-27 (ERV)

Now John already had a mother, who the Apostle Mark identified as Salome.  But Jesus was more concerned about His mother, already a widow and soon to lose a son.  And yes, it wouldn’t hurt for John to have someone to care for and see to, something to distract him from his own grief over losing his Master.  So this arrangement benefited both.

But it also tells us that there may be times when we need to look past normal familial bonds and bring others into the closeness of family.  We may need mothering, or we may need to mother someone else.  Or maybe a little of both, all at the same time.  And that will be OK.  We’ll be doing what God wants us to do, loving someone like He loves us.

So yes, today let’s celebrated our mothers by honoring them or their memory.  But let’s also think lovingly on those folks, women and men, who have loved us like mothers, or those we have loved like our own children.  And let us thank God for mothers and their love.  In the blessed name of Christ Jesus our Lord.  Amen.

Let us pray…  Almighty God, thank You for giving us the warmth and comfort of family.  Thank You for our mothers who reflect Your love.  And thank You for all those who have mothered us in this life.  Sadly, Father, we know that not all those who brought life into the world were good mothers.  And we know some mothers have suffered greatly, even while trying to do their best for their child.  But Father, we also know that some people have willingly, whole-heartedly, taken on the role of mother for someone who needed it the most.  So we thank You for the blessing of all mothers.  Please protect those who are still with us in this life, and richly reward those who are now with You.  Please help us stay true and faithful to our Lord so that we can all be reunited some sweet day.

Please hear us now, Father, as we pause for just a moment so that each of us can speak to You through Your Spirit within us, promising to be more obedient to Your and our Lord’s commands, and seeking Your help to do so…

Lord Jesus, thank You for showing us Your human side in Your relationship with Your own mother.  And thank You for also showing us that there can be many and various different mother-child relationships in this life.  Sometimes we just need someone to mother us, to hold us when we’re sad, to rejoice with us when we’re happy.  Please help us remember that all mothers are a reflection of God and His love.  And that all people – all of us – are created in God’s image.  Help us show Your love and His love as we reach out to others, sharing Your words and Your works, telling them all about You.  Help us carry out the mission You gave us, seeking the lost sheep and leading them to You.

Holy Spirit, please shield our minds and our hearts from Satan’s lies and the world’s empty promises.  Guide us around all the devil’s traps and snares.  Help us see though his temptations.  Help us keep our focus on the things of heaven and the needs of others rather than on anything this world might offer.  All this we pray in the blessed name of Christ Jesus our Lord.  Amen.

The Way Is Ready

 

[The following is a manuscript of my message delivered at Pilgrim Reformed Church on Sunday morning, the 3rd of May, 2026.  If all went well, a recording of the service may be available on our YouTube streaming channel: 

https://www.youtube.com/@pilgrimreformedchurch1992/streams for the older services or https://www.youtube.com/@pilgrimreformedchurch3115/streams for later services.]

Family, we observe the sacred rite of Holy Communion six or seven times a year, depending on which Sunday Easter falls.  We take Communion on the first Sunday of each quarter, on Maundy Thursday, on Easter Sunday, and on Christmas Eve.  Sometimes, like this year, Easter Sunday falls on the first Sunday of the quarter, so we only have six times those years.

We observe Holy Communion to remind us of the sacrifice Jesus made on our behalf.  We eat the bread, His body beaten and broken for us.  We drink from the cop of the new covenant, sealed by His blood.

You know all this – it’s nothing new.  But did you know that our observance of Holy Communion has its origins in the last supper Jesus enjoyed on this earth with His chosen disciples?  Maybe you remember me beginning the rite by saying, “On the same night in which Jesus was betrayed…”.  It was at that supper that Jesus broke the bread and shared it with His friends, commanding them to eat in remembrance of Him.  It was just after they ate that Jesus passed the cop of the covenant, again so that they might remember Him.  And it was after that meal that Jesus was betrayed by Judas, denied by Peter, arrested, tried, and crucified.  We are also commanded to remember Him.

No, we’re not going to have Communion today.  I just want us to remember that night, so long ago, that night when Jesus observed the Passover meal with His friends.  All four of the Gospel writers gave us an account of that night, but the Apostle John saved the most extensive record of the events of that evening.  His is also the most detailed account, focusing not only on the bread and wine part, but also on the foot washing and the general discourse and conversation of the evening.

I’d like to read just a little from John’s account as Jesus speaks with His friends for the last time in His mortal life before His resurrection.  He knows His time on earth is at an end, and He wants to soften the blow a little for them, letting them, and us, know that the way is now ready, the way we can follow.  Please listen and follow along to what the Apostle John recorded of the conversation between Jesus and His disciples, in the 14th chapter of his Gospel account, verses 1 through 15, and I’ll be reading from the New Life Version of our Holy Bible this morning…

1 “Do not let your heart be troubled. You have put your trust in God, put your trust in Me also. 2 There are many rooms in My Father’s house. If it were not so, I would have told you. I am going away to make a place for you. 3 After I go and make a place for you, I will come back and take you with Me. Then you may be where I am. 4 You know where I am going and you know how to get there.”

5 Thomas said to Jesus, “Lord, we do not know where You are going. How can we know the way to get there?” 6 Jesus said, “I am the Way and the Truth and the Life. No one can go to the Father except by Me. 7 If you had known Me, you would know My Father also. From now on you know Him and have seen Him.”

8 Philip said to Jesus, “Lord, show us the Father. That is all we ask.” 9 Jesus said to him, “Have I been with you all this time and you do not know Me yet? Whoever has seen Me, has seen the Father. How can you say, ‘Show us the Father’? 10 Do you not believe that I am in the Father and that the Father is in Me? What I say to you, I do not say by My own power. The Father Who lives in Me does His work through Me.

11 “Believe Me that I am in the Father and that the Father is in Me. Or else believe Me because of the things I do. 12 For sure, I tell you, whoever puts his trust in Me can do the things I am doing. He will do even greater things than these because I am going to the Father. 13 Whatever you ask in My name, I will do it so the shining-greatness of the Father may be seen in the Son. 14 Yes, if you ask anything in My name, I will do it.

15 “If you love Me, you will do what I say.”

--John 14:1-15 (NLV)

Let us pray…  Father God, You sent Your Son, Your Christ, to carry out Your plan for the reconciliation of mankind.  You and He both knew how it would all come down, how it would play out, how much He would have to suffer.  And You had to stand by and watch, a father watching his only son beaten and executed – how horrible!  And it was all for us, so that our sins would be forgiven and that we might receive salvation if we only follow Your Son, honor Him, obey Him.  Sadly, Father, we don’t always give enough consideration to just what He went through for us.  We struggle to carry out the mission He gave us, to obey those simple commands.  Please help us be more obedient, Father, and more appreciative of His sacrifice.  Remind us that we would be eternally lost had He not given of Himself for us.  Help us never forget.  And please help us be more like Jesus as we walk through this life.  This we pray in the beautiful name of our Lord Jesus.   Amen.

In November of 1975, 75 convicts started digging a secret tunnel designed to bring them up at the other side of the wall of Saltillo Prison in northern Mexico.  On April 18, 1976, guided by pure genius, they tunneled up into the nearby courtroom in which many of them had been sentenced.  The surprised judges returned all 75 to jail.

Also in 1976, a man on a flight across America rose from his seat, drew a gun, and took the stewardess hostage.  "Take me to Detroit," he demanded.  "We're already going to Detroit," she replied.  "Oh... Good", he said and sat down again.

Sometimes our sense of direction can get a tad bit skewed, a little off.  Maybe that's why Jesus felt it important to let us know that He is the way.  He is the direction we must go.  He is the path we must follow.  Otherwise, we might get lost and end up in someplace far worst that jail or prison.

Our scripture passage opens with Jesus reminding His disciples that they have trusted God, trusted in His word and promises, all their lives, so they should trust Him as well.  Now we today know that Jesus is God, one of the three persons of God, but His followers were still grappling a little with that concept.

“Trust Me”, He told them, “when I tell you that I am going away soon, but I’m going so I can get things ready for you to come join Me.  You know where I’m going, and You know how to get there – I’ve been telling you for quite some time now.”  And of course it was Thomas who needed more detail.  Leading Jesus to give the great statement of promise: “I am the Way, and the Truth, and the Life.”  Jesus is the way and He has made the way ready for us to be with Him forever.

And can’t you just feel His frustration when Philip blurts out, “Show us the Father”?  After all this time, after all they’ve been through together, all they’ve seen Him do, all He’s told them, they still don’t quite get it.  “If you’ve seen Me, you’ve seen the Father.”

No one can see God.  God is spirit.  He has no physical presence, unless He want to take one on at any given time. But people could see Jesus, touch Him, hear His voice, walk with Him, eat with Him.  Jesus came to us so that we could see God.  Of course, we today haven’t seen Him, not with our eyes, but we have the eyewitness accounts and we have faith, so we can believe without seeing.

And in believing, we love our Lord, so we do what He says.  Right?  Well, at least we try to.  Don’t we?

About six months before Jesus was born into the world, another baby was born, and this one to parents well past their childbearing years.  This baby was ordained and sanctified by God with a special calling in life, a very special mission.  John, the Baptizer, came into this world to make the way ready for Jesus.  Jesus came to make the way available to us.

Zacharias spoke to his infant son John and to those gathered at John's bris, his naming ceremony.  The Apostle Luke saved for us what Zacharias said that day, in the 1st chapter of his Gospel account, verse 67 and verses 75 through 79...

67 Zacharias, the father of John, was filled with the Holy Spirit. He told what was going to happen, saying, 75 “We can be holy and right with God all the days of our life.

76 “And you, my son, will be the one who speaks for the Most High. For you will go before the Lord to make the way ready for Him. 77 You will tell His people how to be saved from the punishment of sin by being forgiven of their sins. 78 Because the heart of our God is full of loving-kindness for us, a light from heaven will shine on us. 79 It will give light to those who live in darkness and are under the shadow of death. It will lead our feet in the way of peace.”

--Luke 1:67, 75-79 (NLV)

I think that short passage contains one of the more beautiful lines in our bible.  The heart of our God is full of loving-kindness for us.  God loves us.  He loves us so much, He wants us to be with Him forever.  So He sent His Son to atone for our sin.  And He sent John to prepare the way for His Son, to make the way ready.

Well Family, John did his job.  Jesus set the way.  Jesus is the way.  Follow Him.  Obey Him.  In the blessed name of Christ Jesus our Lord.  Amen.

Let us pray…  Almighty God, thank You for all that You set in play to reconcile us back to You.  Thank You for giving us the faith to believe in Jesus as Your Son and to accept Him as our Lord.  And thank You for our bible that has all the details for us.  But sometimes, Father, we tend to take Your loving kindness, Your many blessings, for granted.  Too often we don’t truly appreciate what You did for us, what Your Son went through for us.  Please forgive us these times, Father.  Please strengthen us to stay on the path Jesus set.

Please hear us now, Father, as we pause for just a moment so that each of us can speak to You through Your Spirit within us, promising to be more obedient to Your and our Lord’s commands, and seeking Your help to do so…

Lord Jesus, thank You for giving Your all so that we could be forgiven of our sins and be granted eternal life by our belief and obedience.  Thank You for establishing the rite of Holy Communion so that we are regularly reminded of Your sacrifice on our behalf.  Please help us be more observant of Your sacrifice.  Help us show our love for You by doing as You command, reaching out to others as You did, sharing Your words and Your works, offering Your love.  Help us carry out the mission You gave us, seeking the lost sheep and leading them to You.

Holy Spirit, please shield our minds and our hearts from Satan’s lies and the world’s empty promises.  Guide us around all the devil’s traps and snares.  Help us see though his temptations.  Help us keep our focus on the things of heaven and the needs of others rather than on anything this world might offer.  All this we pray in the blessed name of Christ Jesus our Lord.  Amen.